Followed him wherever his career has taken us.
Other things I have done have not been some grand sacrifice or compromise, but he has sort of led the way on many matters. For instance, I developed an interest in his car hobby, but we both enjoy different aspects of it. I try to keep the house neater to please him, but never still quite up to par for him. Funny, when he is out of town it is easier for me to keep everything neat, even though he does not make a mess, but I have to do more when he is home. Cook more, more laundry, more errands.
I think one of the big things that keeps us together is my husband taking seriously the commitment he made. That is good and bad to me. I also think not having children in some ways made us very close, as we spend a lot of time with each other, focused on each other. But, I would assume having children bonds you in another way.
Teamwork has been the biggest thing in our marriage. Feeling united.
I never feel like anything is 100% for sure though. Even though I feel good about my marriage and our bond, I also think anything can happen in the future, and nothing is guaranteed.