Too many male doctors, other mature guys, and ignorant females for me to think you can get any meaningful answers by gender exclusion. And women tend to be far cattier, so you sure as hell won’t escape any meanness. Hell, I’ve seen them get so bad that my wife turns to me and tells me she is ashamed to have a uterus; us guys cannot match you gals when it comes to being nasty.
I saw your other question, and while I can see why you might not want a teenage boy to even see that sort of question from you, I’ve been with the same woman longer than you’ve been alive, so it’s not like I am a stranger to that sort of thing. And since it’s possible that I am actually older than your parents (and some of the guys where are old enough to have grand-daughters older than you) I wouldn’t be afraid of immature answers either.