BTW, @shehulk13 I am a male. I also work out daily. I don’t know if you can bench more than me or not, but if I were in the market for a relationship I would find the fact you share my interest in staying fit a turn-on. I am muscular enough that even at my age, you wouldn’t intimidate me. I would think you would have the best chance of getting dates with guys at the gym that appreciate the work you’ve done on those arms. If you’re in a women’s only gym, I’d suggest you find a coed one instead.
There will be all sorts of reactions to anything we humans do that puts outside the ordinary. Some guys, particularly the weaker ones, may well find your physique intimidating. Some, even thought they may have a Mr. America body, may just not be attracted to muscular women, preferring the Vogue model look. But some will be intrigued. That’s OK, because you presumably only need one.
No offense meant, but you have locked horns with more than your share of those who responded to your question. So don’t discount the advice you’ve received that you may need to review whether you are coming across to others as overly touchy and confrontational. That, to me, is a definite turnoff when I sense it in someone, male or female.