@zenvelo Good point. But how does that differ from traditional relationships. Marriages and commitments. Hopefully both parties change throughout time. It is as mych as a gamble that they change together.
@elbanditorso I have never thought about it that way before. I see rationality as a tool in my toolbox, how could you not use such a staple tool in something that is a big part of your life.
If you use that line of thinking I doubt you can you draw the line at significant relationships, thus leaving everything to chaos and volatile temporary emotions.
@marinelife I don’t have a utopian relationship puzzled out in which I want to shove someone into. But it is a valid point.
@Judi To be honest I want my cake and eat it too. I don’t know if it will work but is it wrong to try? The situation exists already but right now every thing is up in the air. I am not considering a polygmist thing either.
@knowitall did the the people who tried it regret the experience?