Is this rude, or am I being unreasonable?
Would you view it as rude if a good friend whom you haven’t seen for years planned a very brief visit to you, then spent the better part of a day visiting with an older friend that they happened to run into?
My friend made it sound like it was for my benefit, because I need to work (and Lord knows it’s true), but all of this socializing was going on in the evening, when I am actually free. I was not invited to the socializing; she just made these plans and asked me to drop her off somewhere. Twice. And being on call to be her driver has not helped me focus on my work.
Thank you in advance for your opinions.
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