@jca @Hypocrisy_Central: Your description of the heavy woman in your question imply a negative- all negative descriptions, whereas the thinner version has complimentary wording
I think if the words were more or less flattering for one woman over the next it has more to do with how an individual perceives it. I could have said something generic like “big boned”, even though no one has larger bones than another. Saying “big stomach” could speak differently to many people; some might see it as a size 13 others might see it as a size 32.
@Unbroken @Hypocrisy_Central I am curious as to how other’s would physically describe you. Down to package size abs shaping of your thighs and biceps and whether you have recessive chin and ears or very dominant one’s, Whether you have full head of hair. Etc To show I am not afraid to speak of me, and that I know I am no GQ model to many women (and that is OK), many say I am thin or skinny. They have not seen me at the pool or stepping out the shower, or they would see a mini keg (at least that is what I call it). When I look down I think my gut is too big. Apparently I am not so disgusted with it that I starve myself, or become a gym rat. My feet are too big and flat for my liking. I sport a med Afro at the moment that everyone says is dated; that I should go low fade or buzz with waves if I don’t dread it up. Average arms And legs, but still smaller than I like and not as ripped, but I guess with age you have to expect some softness in appearance. A long time I was not happy with my dumbstick because I comparing it to those of porn stars; most who had the opportunity to ride it or give it lips service told me I was larger than most they have had, even with that I want a half an inch more. As long as I can still get a guttural grunt from them vaginally and scare them anally….I will live with that.
@FutureMemory edit: Musta been ‘cause I PM’d you awhile back “when are you going to ask another question about women’s bodies?” We all know it’s your favorite topic.
What I really would talk about most here do not care to venture. We all have our niches, some it is trivia, others it is kinky sex, others it is sappy relationship thing.
You are perpetuating ridiculously rigid stereotypes of beauty with this question. You can do better. I am not doing it. I said nothing about “would a woman choose to be a beautiful thin woman, or some lousy gross-looking fat skank?”, if people perceive the adjectives I used as bad or good that is on them. Popular media may have influenced them to rank which is better or worse, and they do it daily selling you stuff; they don’t need my help in the slightest.