steamheather, the weight should be slightly more on the front leg, because that is the one you are training, but evenly divided. You want the back leg firm to stabilize.
In addition to making sure your front knee does not extend beyond your big toe, you should also make sure that your back knee NEVER TOUCHES THE FLOOR. You want to get as close to the floor as you can without touching it. This will ensure that your front leg gets the proper training and that your back knee remains uninjured.
You will definitely want to use mirrors to ensure proper form until you’re very comfortable with lunges.