Nope. You definitely do sound OCD. Sounds exhausting. I would have a nervous breakdown if I were like you. I physically can’t do it. I need to be able to crash and go to sleep if I am tired. If I stay up to make sure everything is in its place I will wind up sick a few times a year. That’s how I was when I worked a physical job, sick more often than now when I can rest more. I wonder what the stats are on that? If people who have to have everything in it’s place get more illnesses, and more severe illness.
I have a couple friends who are OCD about cleaning and they both regret how fanatical they were when their children were young.
I am a little of a germaphobe. I am pretty freaked out if someone is sick and shakes my hand or kisses me. I also am very careful about cross contamination with food. But, I don’t obsessively wash my hands, something has to happen for me to wash them. Or, if I am about to cook or eat I wash them.