Less so now, in my 50’s than when I was younger.
I don’t have a problem with people that are somewhat overweight, or not as “hot” as when they were 25.
I resent the modern pressure to maintain the looks of a 25 year old porn star at this time of life.
Blame it on us boomers that are so obsessed with youth and can’t reconcile their aging and mortality.
Do not fucking tell me I have to be running marathons at 80 and still looking like I am 50! Pfft!
I am mostly attracted to sharp minds, wit, humor, intelligence and if these come packaged in someone with an extra 40 lbs. on their body…so be it!
I could stand to firm up these days and drop some weight but….I was just told the other day by a man I am friends with that he finds me ” Fun, funny, sexy and intelligent.”
The “funny and intelligent” part is what made my day, screw “sexy” at this time of life….I am still an attractive woman but it’s all about brains, humor, and common interests these days.
I like to joke about my definition of “BBW”....Big brained women!
In this context yes, I would qualify as a BBW! lol