I don’t think there is such a thing as equal love between two people; they might be very close, it could be a very fine gradient, but I think one partner loves just slightly more than the other. How could you possibly measure the love from one person to another? There will always be some degrees of difference.
That said, would it be the worst thing in the world if you loved someone but they loved you more? Or vice versa? As long as each partner has a considerable amount of love for the other, everything will be fine.
With all that said, I know myself enough to know that I can be enamored of many different types of people. I guess it’s more important to me that I be loved because I know I can love most people.