Females have been beaten down, and subjected to double standards about their sexuality for centuries. Those women become generations of mothers who have had no clue how to teach their daughters how to celebrate their sexuality. This becomes imbedded in a female’s very DNA, since we are all subject to the collective DNA of our species.
The only way out, is for females to wake up out of the oppression of corrosive and archaic convictions about ‘sinful sexuality’, that have been harbored predominantly by outspoken, dominating patriarchal types, and directed specifically towards women since the ‘invention’ of the bible.
The good news is, that within past decades, especially since the sixties, many women have broken out of that spell and told its obnoxious, rebounding echo under no uncertain circumstances where it can go and what it can do to itself.
They must each claim their own beauty, potency and self confirming power in order to experience sexuality equally with the freedom loving male, or female, whichever the case may be.
Females also must contend with a ginormous advertising beast that feeds upon their self image to create a place for its products.
They are told what is beautiful, how they should look, and how awful it is if they don’t fit the image. So they have to be strong, rebelliously self confirming, and deviously intelligent to see the light and say its okay that it happens to be shining on their flower of bliss.