Usually I was the more attractive one, I tend to like not so pretty guys because I like them smart…lol, but I was insecure once or twice.
One guy that I really loved, I almost lost due to jealousy and insecurity. He was extremely smart, I thought he was attractive, funny, a good dresser, the same values as me, etc…so naturally I became a little leery of other women giving him too much attention.
Of course I wasn’t always wrong, and I remember throwing a fit twice and it ended up for a very good reason, they were after him, and I wasn’t crazy. So I’d say unless you very strongly feel someone is trying to snatch him, be cool. If he wanted to leave, he’d leave, he has the choice of whether to be with you or not.
Guys usually don’t like clingy chicks anyway, they like self-confidant, sexy women. Think a good girl with the attitude of a stripper. Tell yourself you can have anyone you want every day and be confident. You will survive without him if the worst happens, and if you make progress on yourself, maybe you can keep him forever because you’ll be healthy.