A question for the ages.
What do you value. What makes you happy.
If the answers to these questions are reasonable and not destructive, move that direction. If they are unreasonable or destructive, abandon them.
What do you like to do so much that you think it would be unfair to be paid for it? That is a career choice clue.
Abandon losers and pathetic morons who blame others for their problems. Surround yourself with happy and successful people. Observe them and their behaviors. What they are doing is working. It will work for you too.
Do not make excuses for your failures. Analyze them, and make honest corrections in your outlook and decisions.
Do not be afraid to be proud of your successes. They are a hint of what you can do.
Attitude is EVERYTHING.
If you really think about it, it is not all that complicated.