Having been a professional cake decorator, I have encountered many names, and spelling variations. I have learned that when spelling a name, I ALWAYS ask. Alan, Allan, Allen, Jon, John, Jean, Tami, Tammie, Tammy, Sherri, Sheri, Shari, Chari, Smith, Smyth, Smythe.
People get my name spelled wrong. I get miffed, but more so when they seem indignant over being corrected.
@FlyingWolf , WTF!!!!!!!!???????????? I think if someone corrected MY spelling of MY name, I would have to slap them like a thief. I’m sorry there are people who treat you so rudely, but I’m glad you shared, because the very stupidity of it gave me a much needed laugh. I swear to you now, if I EVER have occasion to write your name, I will spell it correctly, even if you tell me it is spelled with 14 Zs lined up.
In the case of co workers, and cow orkers, I would take them to task, and see to it they get your name correct. You might just distribute a business card to each person, ask them to keep it handy, so there will no longer be a spelling issue. After all, while you have a desire and right to have your name be correct, there are confusing varieties sometimes, and they would likely appreciate the help.