For the most part, my family is pretty open-minded (they still act kind of “grossed out” when a gay couple kisses on TV… which seriously makes me angry. If a straight couple can kiss, why can’t a gay one?) Anyway, I remember my mom, a nurse, was telling me that when she was younger she didn’t support gay marriage because she thought it was really weird, but one day when she was working, a gay couple came in and one of them was really sick. They tested the sick man and turns out he had AIDS. When they told the man’s partner, the partner immediately broke down and just sobbed. That’s when my mother realized that gay couples love each other just as much as straight couples do, so now she supports gay marriage.
I go on mission trips around the world, and on the last one we had a man come with us. He was telling us what he did at home and stuff, and how he hung out with his partner a lot. He was really nice and we all grew super close. When we got home, a few weeks later, I checked his Facebook, and I saw that he had gotten married. I looked at their pictures and saw that he was married to another man, and it was so cute, they looked like they love each other so much! I read the comments and everyone was saying, “Congratulations, I’m so happy for you!” Even the people on our mission trip team were saying that! I did not see one bad comment at all. It made me very happy. Later, I told my dad, who doesn’t have a Facebook, that the guy from our team married his partner, and my dad told me to say to him that he was very happy for him.
A few weeks ago in my school we had “Ally Week”, where we had to dress up as different colors each day, and the colors represented something. For example, red was for love and compassion. Friday we were supposed to wear rainbow colored clothes. They had a stand in the lunchroom where you signed a paper to pledge that you would never judge someone else for their orientation and that you will be nice to people no matter what. A lot of people signed it.
Despite all this, I still hear a lot of anti-gay, anti-trans insults, and it makes me very angry to see how ignorant some people can be. I promised to myself that the next time I hear one of those insults, I won’t keep silent and I will stand up for the LGBT community.