Maybe this will help.
Imagine it is a cool, bug free, summer night. You are sitting in a blanket watching a fireworks display. It starts with the thump of the lift charge tossing the ball into the air. It rises and spins for 3 seconds leaving a tight spiral of sparks behind. Then there is the flash with two, now three, colors radiating in all directions. The sound and concussion reach you a fraction of second later. The scene is so spectacular you have to restrain yourself from yelling “Wow!” It is an almost magical experience.
But you can’t watch fireworks forever. It is over in 4 seconds. Done. Paper casings fall to the ground. The smell of cordite lingers. You taste and feel a few bits of residue that somehow got in your mouth. After a while, you get hungry. You need to use the bathroom. The sun comes up. The car needs brakes. Your rent is due. Life gets in the way.
These is a reason expressions like “Live fast die young.” “Burning the candle at both ends.” etc. as so long lived. It is becasue they are true.
You can’t sustain fireworks. They are spectacular because they burn out in an instant.
So it is with magical dream vacations and romances. They cannot last.
“She’s like no one I’ve ever met before” I have a secret for you. ... Sit down for a moment as this might make you a bit woozy.
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Actually, she is like others. She eats, gets sad, gets sick, gets dirty, gets older, fatter wrinklier, needs to buy clothes, deodorant, makeup, shoes. She even pees and poops – sometimes multiple times per day! You just don’t see the negatives during a short vacation in one of the most beautiful places on Earth. You enjoyed fireworks! Great!
I’ll give you a heads-up. The woman you meet tomorrow will do all of the above things things too. (Except for Ardiranna Lima who, I’m certain, only poops rose-scented, heart-shaped pellets.)
You enjoyed fireworks and are richer for it. You gained a life experience. There will be more. Keep working, eating, and staying healthy so you can enjoy them.
Let the good memory sustain you when life seems boring.
Good luck.