Haha..In real life? Forever, I am not an overtly rude type but can employ sharp humor to get my point across.
Probably as guy I dated about 6 years ago that said he wasn’t good at making plans. WTF!
I told him ” You are 47 years old, have kids, a major management job but you aren’t good at making plans?” Next. lol
I then told him that you can’t say you want to date somebody if you can’t make plans, that that was like saying you wanted to lose weight but eat donuts for dinner every night. He laughed, I ditched him. haha