I start with All, look at the questions that interest me and if i still have some Qs highlighted in the “just for me” category, i look at those next and choose “not interested”. As of now, i do not use the “my fluther” feature at all. Stalking people might make more sense when the community size increases. but right now, i don’t want to miss out on detecting the charming new people who join the site so i can learn new things and perhaps add them to my fluther later on. i like the people in “my fluther”, but i prefer variety in general.