Yep, mostly myself. I have one amazing good friend of over 10 years and my daughter but really, we all walk alone through the hills and valleys of our life. I don’t like complaining and I don’t want to over burden anyone. My one good friend and I share a great relationship, we are good listeners, supportive and non-judgmental. I have found that most of the time when you share stuff with others they want to jump in and give advice or tell you their opinions.
If I don;t ask for your opinion I don’t want it. I loathe the ” let me tell you what you should do” types. Just support me, let me share my feelings/thoughts and offer practical help, and keep your armchair advice to yourself.