My name has always felt like it fits me.
My first name is one that has many different spelling variations—even when I meet someone with my name, we almost invariably spell it differently. (I run into people more often with my name now; they’re all younger than me.) My first name is spelled… I guess in a way that runs atypical to spelling conventions. Online forms used to (almost invariably) save it wrong—but they’re getting better. I used to be vehement about my spelling. Now I find it somewhat amusing to see what strangers do. (Not people I know, though—I still want them to spell my name correctly.) My first name also has at least 5 ways to shorten it into a nickname—5 that I go by or have gone by, anyway—and so I’m really good at responding to sounds that sound like pieces of my name.
My last name is unusual and sounds different than it’s spelled. I actually didn’t know this for years, and by the time I found out about the mispronunciation plight experienced by my paternal side of the family, I didn’t really care. I think I was also so burned out by fixing the spelling of my first name for so long.
My middle name is pretty and it stands alone well—my parents wanted to make it a back up, in case I wound up not liking my first name. As I was getting ready to go to college, I planned on using my middle name just for a change, but I didn’t wind up doing it; I grew up around many people who went by names that were different from their legal first name, and so I’d seen how many times they had to correct people in a school setting, where procedural stuff goes by the name on the registrar—and I didn’t want to be the person who first corrected the spelling of my first name, then corrected the pronunciation of my last name, and then told them “but I go by the name in the middle anyway.” (I’ve since realized that most people mispronounce my middle name the first time they read it, too, so that would have been yet another step in the process.)
All of that said (sorry for so much!) I am rather fond of my name, but I think I’d be fine with changing it… I’d want to be able to pick what I’d be called instead, or at least have veto powers—I’d want to like hearing the new name all the time.
PS: my first, middle, and last names are either all forenames or all surnames. I think that’s kind of fun.