Had to get a new suit yesterday and tried a few on, partially thinking about this question.
Your mileage may vary of course, but it still looks really odd on me when anything is above about mid-thigh and loose. “high and tight” looks a little more natural but just comes across as underwear to me, which honestly is probably the point. My wife at least found it humorous, so there’s that. But I’m taking kids to the pool, so not looking to show my undies.
So I ended up with board shorts, again.
Now if someone could explain to me what the hell is up with the mesh inside, I’d be all set. So uncomfortable.
And you ladies of fluther do so enjoy talking about penises that you never, ever, ever want to see.