@flo hits on a serious question. If you look back to my Fluther answers a couple weeks ago, I raised the question then.
There is no agreed upon definition of what ‘sexual misconduct’ is.
Yes, we can all point out certain individual things (‘grab the by the pussy-Donald Trump”, or masturbating in front of someone who doesn’t want to see it, etc., etc.). Is X-rated talk misconduct? Is R-rated talk misconduct? Is talking about a movie that shows nudity misconduct? Is wearing a T-shirt that says “wanna fuck?” misconduct? Is staring at a person’s eyes misconduct? Is staring at a woman’s chest misconduct?
Some folks will answer “all of the above” – and I have big problems with that wide of a definition.
Some folks will say “it depends on the situation” – but that means that there are no real rules; they shift to meet the needs of the time. And that is no way for civil society to operate.
So until there is some commonly understood definition of ‘sexual misconduct’, it’s very difficult to take every allegation seriously.