A lot of the answers seem to come from an older generation.
But I am young, unmarried and I was just wondering why I cannot have a guy fall in love with me for the right reasons, me. I wonder this as I see couples out and about, and watch Netflix.
I am fine alone. But I feel I am missing out on a vital part of human-ness — togetherness and love.
I am afraid I will grow old with no one to relate to.
I have always been this way. In college, I slept with guys because that was what they wanted, and I believed they would love me into the hereafter. When I woke up to reality (lol), most guys who would initiate with me just wanted sex.
I am very attractive and intelligent, so I get a lot of attention. But as I go through my life, I am realizing I am much happier alone.
Sigh. I just… want love. If I cannot have it, that is fine too. Thank you all!