It makes me curious what the parents would want to say to their children who cut them off. My sister cut herself off from my dad. I wonder if my dad has written a letter? I feel pretty sure no matter what he wrote it would be terrorizing to her, even if the letter’s intent was to be caring.
I’m not asking anyone to answer what I’ve written above, I don’t want to steer the Q off track, but the thread is quite interesting.
I’ve thought about writing letters to be opened after my death to my MIL and SIL many many times. I doubt I’ll do it.
There is just so much misunderstand wth my inlaws it’s annoying. I feel like I want to once and for all articulate every time there were misunderstandings. I could take my time thinking through what I want to say and get someone to translate into Spanish. I don’t see myself ever doing it for many reasons.