Don’t forget that this country is a racist, xenophobic shithole that is led by a functioning white nationalist and a radical Republican party. Life for poc isn’t a fucking picnic. So, what you might see (from a position of privilege) as “whining” is merely a call for justice.
And if it seems that Roseanne is getting hit with disproportionate amount of pushback on this, consider that people are able to push back in areas where they can. Public outcry over social media is much easier than taking over a police department or burning down the white house. “Whining” is the conservative (in the true sense) approach here. If the “whining” doesn’t work, then watch the fuck out.
So, yes, if you’re tired of hearing your privilege called out, then sit this out. There are others that give a shit.