Past the girlfriend stage.
Have a medical directive with DNR.
Directive says treat whatever aggressively as possible including experimentals if family agrees.
But brain dead, complete paralysis or comatose with no chance of improvement, disconnect the machines and feeding tubes allow nature to take its course while loading me up with pain and psychotropic meds..
Donate whatever parts are usable afterwards.
Discussed donation of body to science but family not comfortable with that.
Verbal (I need to put it in writing) agreement with children (and wife) is to be cremated, put in a sealed and dated box and kept on the mantle, passed down from generation to generation until my ashes can be spread on Uranus. Just because…....
they will probably scatter my ashes in Big Bend however. I have told them to expect a haunting if they do but you know kids