A lot of people left when Coloma was banned. I left for a while myself. Some of us were really upset. I personally was mostly upset at the mods, but also annoyed that many jellies were ok with it.
Then, not only were jellies ok with it, but happy to see a lot of us jellies go, they said as much on Q’s. They said they liked that it was calmer and nicer. Once in a while I would lurk, or another jelly would text me and tell me they saw the comments. So, for me personally I saw comments like that and just thought that that is not what fluther is supposed to be. No one should be attacking anyone, but the whole reason I got sucked into fluther was the strong debates and amazing knowledge of the members here.
Moreover, one jelly started to become sort of the self appointed person in charger of whether jellies were being empathetic enough or kind enough. He received some positive reinforcement from some, and negative feedback from others, and then he left too.
I’m back, but it’s definitely not as active here as it used to be. Not as many interesting Q’s, but there still are some, and some of the people who I count on for technical Q’s are still here, which I find very helpful.
Seek started a new website, some jellies moves over there. I have an account, but rarely log in. A lot of us see each other on Facebook.