I grew up in a family of seven and there was always conflict and noise around or the opposite too quiet when my older siblings moved out on there own.
I realize now, that I am an introvert as I don’t need crowds around me or numerous friends to validate me either.
I like being independent and have lots of outside interests that keep me occupied.
I assume that there are extroverts that need the party lifestyle in order to feel valued.
Each is a valuable person anyways regardless of being an introvert or an extrovert.
I am comfortable with or without a group of people but I like the feeling of freedom on my own to come and go where and wherever I please.
I grew up isolated in the family of older siblings that had there own things to do so instead of feeling lonely at those times I felt relieved of the chaos in a large family.
Loneliness is” not” a negative at all its a time to be alone with ones thoughts and produces ideas and spurs one onto expressing oneself via painting, writing diaries,photography and a lot more.
Those alone times are the best time to develop and learn new things and one day maybe make something very unique that others may want to purchase from .
Great thinkers develop great ideas that otherwise would be lost in a crowd.