My mortgage, utilities, property taxes, house maintenance fees (HOA, lawn, etc) and home insurance add up to just under $2k a month barring any unexpected house fix.
Food, including groceries and restaurants, is $700 I think.
Car insurance, gas, lease, and miscellaneous expenses like clothing or cosmetics are about $1k on average. Most months it’s about $700, but some months it’s well over $1k, it depends.
We buy very little clothing, cosmetics, or knickknacks.
That’s for two people, my husband and I.