I don’t remember ever asking for a gift for a holiday or birthday and being upset if I didn’t get it. I never asked for anything unreasonable, and I don’t think I even got gifts every year once I was about 10 years old, I barely remember it. Mostly, I received money, and I put it all in the bank.
I can remember one time really wanting a pair of jeans, and I cried in the store, and so my parents relented and gave me the money for them. I think I was about 7 or 8 years old. I tried them on, and then in the end I didn’t buy them.
As a teen I remember having big fights at times about wanting to go out somewhere, but it was rare, because my parents overall weren’t very strict.
I once asked my mom if I used to fight with my little sister a lot. I don’t remember fighting with her much at all. In my memory she was very cute, and we would play together. We are 2.5 years apart, I’m older. My mom answered, “oh no, you didn’t fight a lot. When your sister wanted something you had, if she started to whine about it, you would just give her whatever she wanted, and tell her to shhh, mommy doesn’t like a lot of noise.” Lol.
I don’t think I was a very possessive child. I shared willingly, and I rarely thought to ask my parents to buy me anything.