I used to have people telling me all kinds of stuff when I was in Children’s Services (believe me, all kinds of stuff). On my own, not through work, I am very calm when I hear stuff. I will be interested, and fascinated, but not exasperated or exclaiming.
So many women have had some kind of inappropriate touching or other unwanted sexual act done to them that it’s not shocking. So many people have fractured families due to someone dying, inheritance issues, family fights, cheating, lying, etc. Not shocking.
So many people have secretive sex lives, regarding fetishes and other things that interest them but are not for their average friends and family to hear.