I try. I really believe in the Golden Rule. I try to pay it forward also, which is part of a similar line of thinking. I know I fall short at times, but it is good to have ideals to strive for and live by. Whenever people do kind things for me it makes me want to do kind things for others, It really is what makes the world go ‘round. In my observation the least generous and most grumpy of people are people who don’t experience gifts of generosity from others. I am not talking about money, although that can be included, I mean gifts of time, help, caring, connections, and opportunities. It is somewhat of a learned behavior.