i think people think they understand the fullness of complex situations far more thoroughly than they actually do. And I think once we substantially change history in a “what if?”, we very much don’t know what else would be different as a result, nor what would happen.
Mindsets about violence, war, national enemies, and destroying entire cities from the air, were VERY different in the 1940s (only 80 years ago). So were ideas about other ethnicities, cultures and nationalities.
I think the Internet and videos probably tend to have an effect on worldwide relatability and other shifts in ideas (as well as many other things), so what sorts of effects this would have would depend on how long before 1945 these had been around. If they had just appeared, then I don’t imagine they would have all that much effect.
Sadly, too many people still relate to nuclear weapons as a potentially valid weapon to actually use, even on civilian targets.