In a way, I guess. Even a third and fourth chance. An old girlfriend of mine wanted to get married, but I just wasn’t up for it. She got herself preggers by another guy and was forced to marry him by her parents. We still stayed in touch but when she would call it was always the same thing, her hubby was an ass, she didn’t love him. blah blah. She finally divorced him and started calling me again. I still wasn’t up for it. She eventually married again, and my only thought was plop plop, fiz fiz, oh what a relief that is. Another A hole, another divorce. she started trying to pressure me again. But have you ever loved a woman, but just not wanted a steady diet of her? Thats how it was for me. Eventually lost contact with her, she got word to me thru a mutual friend that she was tired of waiting for me and wasn’t giving me another chance. Never asked for another chance in the first place. Makle your dang marriage work woman! So that’s my story. Might look her up on Face Book sometime and see how she’s doing. Now that I’m married myself, and safe. LOL