@erebus9, and @everyone – Gotta say there’s more to this than expected, mostly because the answers show how much mixed feeling there is toward sex, personalty, and gender roles.
My own opinion (and experience) is that all this stuff is way more fluid than most people may think – and always has been. So it’s interesting to see what other people think is possible, acceptable, and natural. But also a little puzzling that folks have so many different notions about “submissive” and “dominant” roles, and what limits they imply.
I’ll just say that I believe sex should be fun, and can be when partners respect and support each others’ curiousity. Also, being sexually submissive doesn’t make you inferior or unfeeling, and being dominant doesn’t mean you get all the best all the time.
There’s more to everyone than we realize.