[Mod says] The question was clearly flame-bait from a user with an agenda. It had to do with placing family members in a nursing home, but in a wholly disingenuous way. In general, questions can be removed because they are inappropriate, spam, poorly constructed or poorly worded. Many questions, once removed, go back up once the asker corrects/modifies it to be more suitable. However, other questions never reappear if the user ignores the request for modification or if there really is no way to salvage the question. In the future, if you have concerns or complaints, feel free to contact one of the mods directly, or use the contact link at the top of the site. Hope that answers your question. Oh, and you still get to keep your lurve! Yeah!