It doesn’t really matter. It is not a criterion for me either way, even though I know what you mean in the question.
For me the most important thing is the love. A woman who loves me can be dominating, but she’ll take care of me. Or she can be my slave and do whatever I want out of love. A woman who doesn’t, will be either a dictator or a pathetic little doormat. Though usually love does make you a bit submissive, or at least more tender towards the other person.
The best relationships are the ones where there is a balance, where both people love and especially respect one another and try to fulfill their partner’s needs. And both are happy.