Either or. I like the man the way he likes himself. If he’s confident enough to wax, that’s hot. But if he likes himself au natural, that’s just as sexy.
I’ve never been with a man who had a very hairy gorilla chest. It’s bad enough when a partner’s dried off with a linty bath towel and I got lint all stuck to my nose and mouth. We’d have to comb and gel that stuff into place or break out some clippers.
@eponymoushipster: nothing a pair of Wahl clippers can’t have some fun with, don’t be a sad primate ;p Sean Connery had a regular hairy chest, not a gorilla fur chest.
Hair doesn’t bother me. I’ve dated guys that shaved all the time, and others who were quite hairy. My husband is in between. He sometimes shaves, or he lets it grow out.
My boyfriend does not have chest, arm, or much facial hair because he is native. I love him this way because I really dislike hairy chests so it works out well.
I like non hairy guys. And if they are open to letting me shave them, well, let me get my razor and shaving creme, and meet me in the shower, big fella!
If you look like Chewie with your shirt off, some trimming or something would be nice. But whatever you’ve got, if you’re comfortable with it, that’s hot. :D