Do relationships usually change after the first 3 months?
I am in a relationship with a great guy. It’s been 3½ months but things have changed. It started off very hot and heavy and I’m afraid maybe that’s what our feelings were based off of. Very soon we were saying we loved each other, could spend the rest of our lives together and wanted to live together. Now he is saying he doesn’t know how he feels and doesn’t feel as he did at the beginning. He says he loves me and cares for me. We have been spending most days together and alot of nights, Do you think it was too much too soon? Can a relationship slow down and still survive? I do love him and can see him as my partner for the rest of my life. I am having a hard time not being with him but I think our relationship needs some breathing room – not a break, just some room for ourselves and our own interests. Also, if he needs some space, I don’t want to smother him but I can’t go more than a few hours with sending a text or calling him. He hasn’t said he needs space, but he has said we will see how it goes. Any advice?
Composing members: 0