I’m not usually a grudge-holder, but there are a few things peppered in my past that I have not been able to let go of. I guess the longest is related to my first relationship, the first person I ever fell in love with (completely head-over-heels), the first girl I dated, slept with, etc. I was madly in love with her. She came from a Fundamentalist family, couldn’t handle the duplicity of lying to her family, and broke it off with me and started dating a guy right after.
She then dated a whole bunch of other people, including a few more girls, then came right back around and married this guy. I have an irrational grudge against him and wish she’d married anyone else but the guy she started dating right after me. It’s been almost 12 years and I still inwardly go grrrrrrrrr when I think of him.