Damn! All the jokes have been taken, already! I was going with money.
The thing here is how you feel about yourself, and how much you think you have to pretend to be someone you’re not. You should always be yourself, but you can improve yourself. Talk to women in non-date situations. Find one you can ask what women like. Take their advice.
When I asked this question when I was 17 or so, I was told they wanted someone who could listen. So I learned to listen, and in the process, I because pretty good at understanding the emotions of women. Well, of all people, really.
After a while—and I had to be patient, I found a number of women who liked me a whole lot. I’m myself. I’m honest. I don’t pretend to be someone else (I can’t, anyway). I try not to get too upset when things aren’t going the way I want them to. I try to be ok within myself (a pretty big trick). I am not out to get over on women, I just want to know them, and maybe, if it works out, get to know them really well.