@YARNLADY I believe that only people with a certain mentality use this as a defense. To their limited way of thinking, they can justify pretty much anything they do because someone else has done worse. This same person has a victim mentality and generally cannot admit, ever to having done wrong. No matter the offense, it will have been; because they were provoked, that the other person deserved it, sigh, I can’t even get into the myriad self serving excuses that these people use. It is my opinion that people like this are not worth my time trying to reason with as they cannot get past the idea that nothing they do is wrong. Or if it is, it is somehow justified. This, to me, indicates a lack of honesty, and a dissociative state that is out of touch with reality. If dissociative state is too strong of a term, I here beg leave to apologize. My brain feels stuffed with cotton, and I’m not operating at full capacity. I’m sure that there is a more appropriate term, I just can’t think of it.