@silverfly agreed, but for the purposes of discussion, in this instance my crime was giving my opinion on her friends looks.
she was showing me pictures, and i was giving vague answers. she kept saying things like “hold on, ill get a real pretty one”
as part of an attempt to head her off at the pass, i tried to end the conversation by saying that its ok, i dont need to see a prettier picture because i can see she is pretty in the picture i was just showed. all hell broke loose and i was accused of being a ’‘potential cheater’’ for saying her friend was pretty.
i feel as if i was trapped on this one, had i said her friend is ugly i could have offended her, and given the past and track record, i knew what saying the opposite could do.
i find the entire thing amazingly paranoid and irrational, specially as i have shown that i have no problem with her going out for the night with friends with other males present. i dont think she is a cheater or anything like that either, so im real confused as to why im being treated with as a suspect.