@joscketSeper No. That won’t work. I understand that, until you become closer, it arguably falls under the heading of “None of their business”, but unfortunately, you’re going to have to come on out with on the first date.
To many people, the purpose of sex, besides procreation, is to bond two people together. What if she wants to show you her love for you by engaging in sex with you? It’s not fair that she become emotionally invested in you, only to be hurt in the end. It doesn’t sound like you are purposely trying to be deceptive, but that’s what it is.
Even TV talk shows have themes along these same lines. Transvestites are so afraid of losing this person that they fell in love with, that they are willing to lie in order to keep them. Inevitably, the person who finds out about it after they are already bonded feels deeply betrayed. This is no way to start a relationship if you have any hope of having a fulfilling one.
Plus, look at it this way…..a woman for whom no sex will not work will naturally wander off to other pastures, thereby saving you all the stress and fear of losing her once you’ve gotten emotionally close to her.