You are on a site, if you haven’t noticed, with a lot of athiests as well as people with VERY diverse beliefs, from Wiccans to Satanists to Hindu to whatever. You have me so confused and upside down. Here are some ways you can ‘find’ what you are fishing for, I guess, in a better way.
“If you are a conservative Christian who believes God loves everyone, how can you explain widespread suffering in the world? Why do you believe “your God” allows suffering and atrocities to happen? I would like to know. ”
Or something to that effect.
They may go into something about their dogma, such as “free will” and how God will not force other people to not do bad things but they will pay in an after life. Of course I cannot pretend to know what they will say. I will reiterate that I am NOT all knowing, psychic, nor can I speak for a higher power or for other people.
You have a specific argument with a specific agenda with a specific target audience. I suggest you recalculate your target and aim, and then fire accordingly.