Yeah I can’t help you on that one, I was always a girlfriend guy so the only times I get directly noticed are when I’m hanging out with friends who know friends. Otherwise it’s just people who walk by each other on the sidewalk and somehow manage to stare straight ahead, which amazes me. lol
It’s rare for me that the girl im interested in isn’t interested back. I guess I’ll be receptive to signals. I’ve had two girls, out of lets say ten potential suitors (hung out, talked, did something fun, partied, kissed, etc) that I liked that weren’t into it. Something about that made them stand out from the rest, like “I have to conquer that now” lol, but being in a relationship is way more fun than being on the outskirts of someone you like.
Now that I’m newly single again, after being in a relationship for 3 years, every time I think about my type, and what I want in a relationship, I think of one of those girls that I had a crush (4 years ago) on that didn’t reciprocate. It gets weird when you have no basis for feeling the way you do, but you want to feel that way, and that person is just there, clueless that you feel that way.