I argued with my mother over my least favorite subject, her other daughter (my sister). Mom calls to ask me to wire money to my sister’s acct. because sister is broke and I said no. My sister has three college degrees, is 30 years old and has never had to hold a job because my parents and her grandparents have supported her apts., cars, bills, trips, etc. Now the other family have told her to get a job and she’s asking my mom to help, my mom who has the least of anyone. I’m feeling crappy and mixed up with sibling jealousy, insult, being taken advantage of and now I’ve got my mom giving me the attitude and cold shoulder- we share a house.
Soooo uncomfortable and even moreso because I don’t want to explain to my bf who also shares the house and yet I feel the rest of the evening will be tense and we won’t be able to relax or enjoy any time together. This makes me angrier at my sister for ruining the day of three people and she doesn’t even know it and if she did then she wouldn’t care as long as she believed that money was coming.
ARGH!