“But no such pattern emerged, suggesting the G-spot is a matter of the woman’s subjective opinion.”
Even so, many women would probably agree that it’s a sensitive area or that stimulation there gives them pleasure. Most of our likes and dislikes about sex are very subjective.
@Neizvestnaya Maybe g-spot stimulation just doesn’t do it for you, which is absolutely no big deal. It’s only one of many erogenous zones. Not everybody likes having their ear nibbled- it’s the same idea. I used to work at an adult toy store, and we had a lot of books that dealt with sex topics like the g-spot in a technical way. Plus I had a chance to talk to a lot of the customers about their experiences as I was trying to solve their problems. It seems like the g-spot is a lot less sensitive than the clitoris. It responds mostly to pressure or rubbing than to light touch, and it can be hard to reach. You can reach it if you make a “come here” motion with two fingers or buy a toy that’s curved like this. Some people need clit stimulation at the same time.
But then again, out of all our customers, it seemed more like something they just wanted to experiment with, or a novelty. Out of everyone who can have a g-spot orgasm, not everybody likes it. It feels like pressure building up (you might feel like you really have to pee) then a sudden release. That’s definitely not pleasurable to everyone. You may have already had a g-spot ograsm but not realized what it was. This is all just conventional wisdom- it’s definitely not accepted as scientific fact. So really, if you don’t like this, it would be pretty normal.