@anoop66
lol I so agree.
Some people just love to try and define you.
My friend I am distancing from is like that.
She is always telling me how I don’t think, feel etc. the way I do! WTF!
I think that joy and happiness ( which IS all about contentment ) is such an alien concept to many, they truly can’t fathom that it is possible to enjoy yourself, your life, regardless of some rough moments or setbacks.
I really think it is about resiliancy, some are just better at brushing themsleves off and getting on with it and others stay stuck in gloom & doom mode forever.
It is all about a mindset…look for happy and you’ll find it, look for gloom and you will find that too.
One thing I have discovered is that if you only talk about present moment reality, what is happening right NOW, people have very little to talk about! lol
You’ll notice that the vast majority of negative peoples conversations are past focused or future based, mostly about negative past events or worrisome possible future events.
If you keep the conversation in the now it is hilarious to watch that after sharing the basics of your present moment there is absolutely nothing else to say!