@JustmeAman I am unwilling to accept people attacking me and using that as a guise for a serious argument. I will call them on it. I am not disposed to feeling kindly towards them, but sometimes I will try to be kind, and this works better than when I’m hostile. But there are times when I can’t rustle up any kindness. So I tell them where they went wrong in attacking me, personally, and I give them a taste of my hostility, although within the bounds of fluther rules, I hope.
Let me give you a tiny example. You made a spelling/meaning error in your last comment. You wrote, “What if we just except others instead?” I think you meant accept, not except. Perhaps not. Perhaps you want to make an exception for others?
A lot of people might assume this is a sign that you don’t know how to spell, or something. But it could be one of those normal mistakes we all make on occasion. Or it could be that you don’t know the difference between the two. In neither case would it be kind to tell you what a bad speller you are and try to discount your ideas in that way, but a lot of people here might do that.
Usually, I just let things like that go. It’s not my job to be grammar police here. Lot’s of others do that. Although I don’t know how they do it.
Anyway, in doing so, I would be taking attention away from the real topic here, which, I might add, is difficult to talk about without examples.